Same-sex couples line up
as D.C. gay marriage law takes effect
By Keith L. Alexander and Ann E. Marimow
Washington Post
Staff Writers
Wednesday, March 3, 2010; 2:21 PM
Sitting at a desk in the marriage bureau of the D.C. Superior Court on
Wednesday morning, Angelisa Young's eyes filled with so many tears, she
eventually buried her face in her fiancee's chest.
Within 30 minutes and with a final keystroke, Young and her partner, Sinjoyla
Townsend, who met 13 years ago in a constitutional law class at the University
of the District of Columbia, became the first same-sex couple to apply to be
married in the District, as the city officially joined five states in allowing
gay marriage.
"I'm just so happy. We're whole now. We will actually be a true family like
everyone else," Young, 47, said as Townsend, 41, used her thumb to wipe away her
soon-to-be wife's tears. After the couple rose from the desk, other couples in
line behind them broke into applause and cheers.
The two women left their Southeast Washington home two hours before the
bureau opened, standing in line in a light cold rain for about an hour before
they, along with some 20 other couples mostly dressed in jeans, jackets and
sweaters, were allowed inside the courthouse. The number of applicants grew
slowly throughout the morning. By midafternoon, 124 couples had filed to be
married, far surpassing the dozen applications the bureau typically collects on
a single day.
The couples won't be able to marry until Tuesday at the earliest since it
takes three business days for the applications to be processed. Young and
Townsend plan to marry that day in a ceremony at the Human Rights Campaign
headquarters with friends and family in attendance.
Many of the couples wore HRC buttons on their lapels; most were from the
District, Maryland, Virginia and West Virginia, and the line appeared to be made
up of more women than men. Some couples brought their children or spoke of the
importance to their sons and daughters.
"It's a great source of pride for her and deep down, a source of relief and
stability," said Silver Spring resident Deborah Weiner of her 15-year-old
daughter as she stood with her partner of 24 years, Janne Harrelson.
There were congratulatory hugs, commemorative pens and chocolate cupcakes to
mark the historic moment. But it was also a somewhat-subdued scene of quiet
anticipation as applicants drank coffee, checked their BlackBerrys and prepared
to head to work after filing their forms and paying $45 in fees.
Court officials had called extra security officers to monitor the halls for
protesters. But the celebration largely overshadowed a group of four opponents
from a church in Kansas who gathered outside the courthouse, chanting and
carrying signs in protest, one of which read: "Mourn for your sins."
There were also local religious leaders in the crowd, who showed up to
demonstrate their support for same-sex marriage, and dozens of college students,
who cheered as couples emerged hand in hand from the courthouse. Representatives
from the Hyatt Regency handed out roses and offered discounts on catering and
accommodations for same-sex weddings held before the end of the year.
Absent from the event was Bishop Harry Jackson, who has been one of the
leading voices opposed to the District's new law. Jackson, pastor of Hope
Christian Church in Beltsville, has tried unsuccessfully to block the measure
from taking effect by seeking a public vote on same-sex marriage.
Jackson said he would continue to press his case in court to "let the people
vote."